À La Prochaine

After a frantic rearranging of my test date due to the day of morning for President George Bush, I managed to eke out a 3/3 on my final French exam. Apparently this means I have “Professional Working Proficiency.” For the Foreign Service Institute’s testing purposes, it meant I can give a presentation on a variety of topics, ranging from the pros and cons of immigration, the effects of climate change on the global economy, and more. I can also hold conversations and get my point across. It remains to be seen how this translates (pun intended) into real world Embassy work. I’m looking forward to getting out into the real world and flexing my French skills.

The past 7 months have been a lot of work, and I’m happy it paid off. Sitting around talking about things in another language for 5-6 hours a day sounds like fun at first…but after the 3rd month, it gets old quick! Mostly I’m happy because it means I can leave for post on time. And by on time, I mean next week! I’m so excited to join the U.S. Embassy in Dakar, Senegal. I’ve known I’m going to Senegal for about 2 years now, and it’s always seemed like a distant dream. Now departure is upon me, and I’ll be spending the day today sorting through all my stuff.

Moving to another country is never easy, and there are so many moving parts that you fear you maybe forgot something essential. I’m also attempting to transport two kitties who hate to travel across an ocean, so that adds an additional spice to the mix.

Senegal is also a consumables post (unlike Bangladesh), and my Thursday night was spent filling up carts with Costco goods – shampoo, cleaning supplies, etc. I know that Senegal will have a lot of what I need, but it’s nice to save some money by buying in bulk and knowing I have the things and brands I like. But now I have to prioritize what is going in the suitcases versus what is going via air shipment versus what is going via a ship. Once I arrive in Senegal, I’ll have 4 shipments coming to me! 2 “ship” shipments (one from Bangladesh!), plus consumables and UAB. It’s a lot to juggle – and how did I acquire this much stuff??

I’ll keep you updated, and hopefully the next update will be from my new digs!! The diplokitties are about to get an upgrade.



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Round Two, sneaking up on me

I realized this week that I have less than 2 months until departure. I swung into action, attempting to begin the stressful task of moving me and my household (i.e. two cats) across the ocean again. I feel a little more prepared for this than I did in 2016, but it’s still a lot to take on alone. The diplokitties need dental work before we set off, I need to figure out how consumable shipments work, and I don’t actually really know anybody in Dakar – whereas when I was going to Bangladesh I already had a few friends from language class.

French is progressing. I took my “interim” test and got a 2+ (oral) / 3 (reading). I need a 3 in both to be able to go to Senegal. Luckily, this means I only have to re-test in the oral, so I can focus on my speaking for the next 4 weeks. I also have a new French teacher who I really like. I still feel like I am speaking like a 4 year old who is trying to speak like an academic, so there’s that. But I’m still fairly confident I’ll get to where I need to be.

In addition to attempting to learn an entirely new language, I have been trying to soak up as much fall weather as possible. Fall came a little bit later this year due to hurricanes and whatnot. Nevertheless, I was able to get out to Shenandoah National Park and surrounding areas a few times, including a couple of lovely cabin rentals and some wine tasting days.

I still have a lot to do in the next 6 weeks to get sorted and ready to go. I’m sure time will fly, and I’ve got some fun things planned for the coming weeks! Wish me luck!

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Late one night last week, I received a Facebook notification from my A-100 group. One of my colleagues was congratulating folks who were tenured.  As I didn’t have access to my work email to view the cable and results of the tenure board, I frantically messaged my colleague to ask if I was on the list. I was!! I was recommended for tenure by the Department of State Commissioning and Tenure Board!!

For those of you not familiar with what this means: Foreign Services officers start as “Entry Level Officers” on a 5 year probationary period and are considered for tenure after 36 months. They get three chances, and if they are not tenured by that time, their limited term ends and they are separated from the Foreign Service.

The qualifications for Tenure seem a little tenuous to those of us who spend our days attempting to be innovative and awesome in Embassies and Consulates around the world. The basic gist is:

“The sole criterion for a positive tenuring decision will be the candidate’s demonstrated potential, assuming normal growth and career development, to serve effectively as a Foreign Service Officer over a normal career span, extending to and including class FS-01.”

So I guess I did that! I am also happy that half of my A-100 colleagues were tenured right alongside me. I’m relieved that it happened and I can stop being on pins and needles waiting for the results to come out, though at the moment, I’m only recommended for tenure – Congress still needs to approve it, which will take a few months. If/when they do so, I’ll be a real career member of the Foreign Service, with all that that entails.

In other news, I’m more than halfway done with French language training, which is hard to believe. I still feel rusty while speaking. It feels like moving through quick sand sometimes to try to come up with the words to complete a sentence in an intelligible way. Most times I fail. Some days are better than others. That being said, I was told I’m progressing as I should and am around a 2/2 level which is limited working proficiency.  As in the description of the ILF level, “errors are frequent.” At least I have great classmates!

That is about all that is happening in my life right now. I’m trying to get outside and do fun American things. I’ve been tubing down a river, biked alongside the Potomac, had my family visit me, and spent good quality time with my cats. I absolutely cannot wait until the fall – bring on hot cider, crisp blue skies, colorful leaves, and fall festivals. And of course…learning French…but in less humid, hot conditions!

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Holey Attack Remembrance

Today marks the 2 year anniversary of the Holey Bakery Terrorist attack in Dhaka, Bangladesh.

Holey Bakery was a restaurant  that I, and nearly all the expats in Dhaka, visited frequently. It was a routine for the consular officers in particular to go there for brunch on the weekends. In fact, the day after I arrived in Dhaka to start my first FS posting, my social sponsor took me to Holey to enjoy some respite from the bustling city. Holey was nestled at the end of a road, next to Gulshan lake. Once you entered the grounds, you felt like you were in another city entirely – greener, cleaner, quieter. The food was outstanding, the view lovely, and in general, it was one of the most popular places for expats and Bangladeshi’s alike.

I remember browsing through the “Deshperate in Dhaka” Facebook group and seeing somebody in the Gulshan area posting a comment about gunshots in the area. I was concerned, but hoped it was just fireworks. Never could I have imagined the devastation that would follow. As time progressed, the Embassy was put on a ‘stay where you are’ type of situation, and we could only try to glean what was happening from other Dhaka residents and, eventually, CNN. When we realized it was all going down at Holey, we were shocked. It is only by a stroke of luck that no Embassy personnel were there – the terrorists had picked a weekend when most of us were out of town and a later time period than most Americans eat. Several of my friends had either been there earlier in the day, were planning to go the next day (like myself), or had been on their way when their plans changed.


The events of that night are horrifying. The manner that most of the victims were killed, the stories of heartbreak and terror, the brave self-sacrifice of Faraaz Hossain…It’s unimaginable. My apartment was about a half mile away. I could hear the gunshots, the explosions, and did not know what was happening. I sat up most of the night with my neighbor (a fellow FSO), and then the next morning cowered in my bedroom. I’ve run through the scenario countless times, my mind wondering what would have happened if I’d chosen that night to eat dinner at Holey. The next day found 20 hostages (18 foreigners and 2 locals), 2 police officers, and 2 bakery staff murdered. All 5 attackers were killed as well – and something that made the attack somehow even more horrifying was that these 5 young men came from the wealthy elite. They could speak English and wore western clothes. They’d attended the best schools in Bangladesh. Yet somehow they were part of ISIL, willing and eager to kill Westerners. It changed the game of how many people thought of terrorist organization recruiters.

The next few months were filled with uncertainty – most of the spouses and all of the children of Foreign Services Officers were evacuated. Our movements in public were effectively cut off. I had nightmares of terrorists overcoming my apartment building. I bought a baseball bat and placed it next to my bed. Loud noises made us all jump (and there are a lot of loud noises in Dhaka!) It felt like we were waiting for the next attack.

I spent the next 22 months of my service in Dhaka severely limited in movement, but with a vibrant community of people that helped me cope. Game nights, sports teams, rooftop parties, and simply just hanging out with others made the situation much better than it could have been. Things appear to be getting better in Dhaka nowadays, but I think the repurcussions will still affect the community for years to come.

Today I am thinking of all those who died or lost people they loved in this senseless attack. Stay strong, Bangladesh.

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Je parle un peu français

I left Dhaka, Bangladesh the beginning of April after a flurry of goodbye parties and packing. I’m now back at one of my favorite places, the Foreign Service Institute, learning French. I will have to obtain a level 3/3 to be able to depart to my next post (Dakar, Senegal, in case you weren’t paying attention!). My life right now is 5-6 hours of language training a day, 5 days a week, plus homework and self studying. It is intense, but I’ll be glad to French once I get to Senegal. Plus it will come in handy in future bidding. Bengali was fun and challenging to learn, but I would only be able to use it in two posts – Dhaka and Kolkata. French opens up a lot of countries I can go to in the future.

Once I get to a 3/3 level in French, I should be “able to speak the language with sufficient structural accuracy and vocabulary to participate effectively in most formal and informal conversations in practical, social and professional topics.” For example, I would be able to “use the language as part of normal professional duties such as answering objections, clarifying points, justifying decisions, understanding the essence of challenges, stating and defending policy, conducting meetings, delivering briefings, or other extended and elaborate informative monologues.” Since I’m not even sure I can do this in English most of the time, it will be a challenge! 

Since my last posting, I was able to travel to Singapore for a weekend as well as to visit friends in Oman. Oman does not strike most people as a place to go to for vacation, but I wholeheatedly recommend it. I had a blast even though I was only there for a few days. We went to a secluded beach, and to a stream in a canyon where we swam through emerald green water to a cave that actually had a waterfall inside. Unreal!



After departing Dhaka and saying farewell to my awesome driver, housekeeper and everybody at the Embassy, I headed back to my hometown for  home leave. I travelled with my family to Yosemite (gorgeous!), then left them to visit my friend in Washington where we expored the Olympic Peninsula, then I left her to head up to Alaska for some mountain time. Highlights included biking around Yosemite with my family with gorgeous weather and amazing views, strolling along a gorgeous beach at low tide with my friend in Washington, and going on a glacier cruise where a pod of orcas came right up to our boat.



Home leave was good overall, though it felt strange to have no real task for 5 weeks. It’s hard to relax once you’ve been going non-stop working and travelling for 2 years. I guess that’s the point though – to get some rest so you can recharge and get ready for your next challenge. Plus, connect with my Americanness again.

I’m  enjoying the U.S. so far. It’s nice to be able to walk outside, go to restaurants, catch up with my A-100 colleagues and folks who also served in Dhaka. I love my apartment. However, I am really really excited to be headed to Senegal in 6 months. I love the ocean, and I will be living within a short distance of it, so that’s pretty fantastic. I have heard the Embassy community is supposed to be good, and a lot of people choose to extend their service. Many of my colleagues and friends did not understand why I put Senegal first on my bid list. It’s simple to me as it checks all my boxes – A cool location (ocean, wildlife, deserts, fun travel opportunities to nearby countries), a great Embassy community, freedom of movement, fulfilling and interesting work, direct flights back to the U.S. (no more 30 hour flights!), great food (seafood!!!!), fantastic culture – music (Youssou N’Dour. Baaba Maal, hey even Akon is of Senegalese descent), art, dancing, hardship differential (to pay for my fun travel opportunities)….what’s not to love??

Recently I added to my family. I adopted a new kitty. She is a rambunctious little thing who likes to annoy my first kitty. Hopefully he will start liking her a bit more as time goes by. Does she look ready to travel??Fleur

Well, that’s about it for now. I will be a better blog-updater now that I have a little more free time on my hands. Thanks for reading this especially long post!

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Nearly there

Wow, it’s been an incredibly long time since I last posted. Life has been busy and after I reached my one year mark, things have gone very quickly. I am now wrapping up the last couple of months of my first tour and preparing to return to the U.S. in April to start langauge training. I’ll spend a month of home leave travelling around and soaking up ‘Murica before heading back to the Foreign Service Institute to begin learning French for Senegal. I am pretty excited to return to the U.S. for a bit – ride my bicycle on the Mt. Vernon trail, walk the National Mall, see friends and A-100 colleagues, eat delicious American food, and more. I’m also excited about moving to Senegal next December. Let me try to do a re-cap of the past 6 months or so.

I finished up my portfolio as the American Citizen Services Officer in October – it was quite a wild ride, especially being on call 24/7. Fortunately, I did not have too many huge crises to deal with. I am now working at a Fraud Prevention Manager – which means I deal with anybody who we suspect is trying to circumvent or break U.S. immigration law by attempting to hide something about themselves (marital status, age, identity, criminal offense). It’s a challenging job but I really enjoy it.

Since my last post, I have been on 2 R&Rs – one to Sri Lanka, Maldives and Nepal, and the other to New Zealand. Both were fantastic trips – there are breathtaking places in the world, and I’m happy to have gotten to experience some of them. All three countries of my firsr R&R took my breath away. I hiked, snorkelled and ate delicious food.

On my second R&R, I hiked nearly 90 miles in 2 weeks. The highlight was the 30ish miles I did on the Kepler Track, one of New Zealand’s Great Walks. I hiked with a friend for 4 days, 3 nights, staying at huts along the way. It was incredibly challenging since I’m terribly out of shape (not being able to walk in Dhaka doesn’t help that), but I managed to complete most of the hike – I cut off some on the front and the back end. The best part of the journey was meeting the other hikers and hanging out with them in the evenings.

In between these R&Rs, I was also able to hit up China, Singapore, and also met my parents in Thailand.

Summer turnover last year was rough – 80% of our Embassy left, and I was one of the few remaining who was here during the Holey Attack. However, over the past few months, I’ve been able to build new friendships and create a new community. It’s definitely a downside of this career – you start growing attached to people and then they leave you, or you leave them. It can be emotionally draining, especially in a place like Dhaka where it is difficult to create friendships outside of the Embassy. It’s a price I pay to live the kind of life I want to live.

Well, I will try to wrap up here for now. Hopefully I will update this more as things start moving along in preparation for my departure from Dhaka. Eek. Until then, dekha hobe!

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The downward slope

My year anniversary in Bangladesh was spent in Bangkok, Thailand. Now I am nearly at 14 months and it feels like time is flying. Work is incredibly busy, now that I have a new portfolio (American Citizen Services), every day is like a little mini whirlwind. I help process passport applications, serve as a notary public, and interview American Citizens to see if their children born abroad can qualify for US Citizenship. In addition to these daily duties, I also help assist with Americans in need – if they get arrested, are sick, or need help locating somebody, I help connect people to resources. And in addition to these other varying duties, I also help plan for larger crises – natural disasters, terrorism, etc. I will be in this portfolio for 6 months, and am on-call 24/7. It’s never a dull moment! Americans get themselves into some really interesting situations abroad…

Since I last wrote, I travelled to Thailand to see some A-100 buddies (and walk outside!) and just came back from a weekend in Myanmar/Burma. Yangon/Rangoon was actually nicer than I thought it would be – clean streets, people who follow traffic laws, and pretty quiet. The Shwedagon Pagoda was stunning. pagonda

We went at sunset and watched the colors of the pagoda change, and the night lights made everything glitter. Walking barefoot around the crowd, semi-unnoticed (as opposed to being stared at constantly in Dhaka), was just magical.

Unfortunately, the next day, as we were on the fun train that circles the city, I had to jump off to throw up on the side of the railway. Apparently a buffet I had gone to in Dhaka a couple of days before had some bad food, and I was overcome with food poisoning. The next 20 hours of my life were spent in bed, miserable. While I do not regret the trip, it would have been more enjoyable if 2/3s of it hadn’t been spent sick!

I have a lot of good trips coming up, so stay tuned.

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A Day in the Life

Now that I have nearly been here a year, I am finally feeling like I’ve gotten my bearings….usually. I still learn new things every day, and I still make more mistakes than I would like, but all in all, I’m starting to get comfortable as a consular officer. I thought I might walk you through a day in my life (using today as an example).

Early morning: After the mornings’ harrowing ride through insane traffic, and safe arrival at the Embassy, I send my local driver off to the tailor with a dress that needs hemming, since I cannot go myself due to security restrictions. I meet up with a few friends from other sections for a coffee and breakfast in the Embassy before heading to the consular section to see what kind of day I will have.

8:00amish: Open up my interview window and call the first applicant, who is patiently (nervously) waiting on a bench. Today is non-immigrant visa day, when we have people coming in hoping for visas for business, pleasure, study and a host of other reasons. I interview mainly in the Bengali language, assessing their purpose of travel, personal and professional ties, and make fair and fast decisions under immigration law. This usually lasts 2-3 hours depending on the applicant load. I enjoy speaking with folks about their lives and seeing their excitement at going to see grandchildren, going to a good US university and more.

11:00am: time for a meeting to discuss our upcoming National Day (4th of July) celebration. While it is still a few months away, there will be plenty of work to do to get things ready

11:45am: Lunch! Time to go to the Embassy canteen and see whats on the menu for the day. I sit with folks from other sections and we catch up, joke, and relax for a little while.

12:30pm: It’s back to the office to catch up on back office work, looking at peoples documents they send us, answering emails, and other administrative work

2:00pm: On some afternoons, we call in folks to reinterview or to look at more complex cases up close at the window. This can last anywhere from 30 minutes to 2 hours based on how many people are coming in.

3:30pm: Time for last minute catch-up work with visas and seeing what is on the docket for the next day – the last hour seems to fly by as I try to keep up with emails, meetings, and side projects, including several commmitees I participate in

Evening: Time to head home to get ready for the gym, make dinner or order in, and maybe meet up with some friends to play board games. I rarely stay in in the evenings, as there is usually something to do – which is ironic since we are so restricted in our movements.

There it is, a day in the life. Not terribly exciting, maybe, but very interesting to me. There is always something to do and never enough time to do it, but I have a supportive group of colleagues. Tomorrow is our immigrant visa day, where I will interview future Permanent Residents and Citizens who have been petitioned for by their families. I enjoy the opportunity to experience both non-immigrant and immigrant visas in Dhaka, since in many other posts officers do one or the other.

There you go, my life in a nutshell!


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Things have been fairly quiet here, as far as Foreign Service life can be quiet. Mid-January I went on my first R&R, which was delightful. I met my parents and one of my best friends in Nairobi, and together we went on a 2 week tour of the Maasai Mara, Ngorongoro Crater, and Zanzibar.

It was wonderful to be outside and breathe clean air. It took about 4 days for my lungs to stop burning (Yep, lots of air pollution in Dhaka). We had really great luck, as well, and saw several leopards, baby lions, elephants, and even baby hyenas. I had been to both Tanzania and Kenya before, but this was something even more. It was great to share it with wonderful people, but it was difficult to leave them behind at the airport.

Shortly after I came back from R&R, I travelled to Ko Samui, Thailand with some of my Dhaka colleagues. We rented a beach-front villa together, and so began 5 glorious days of beaches, swimming, and relaxation.


So now I am back in Dhaka for a bit, with no vacation in the near future. Luckily, rainy season is coming and the air quality should improve a bit with the wind and rain coming in. I also look forward to slightly warmer days where I can sit in the sun by the pool, instead of the smog-ridden skies.

Work is fascinating as usual. I enjoy complicated visa cases and trying to figure out what is really happening. This summer will definitely be a challenge – the vast majority of the older, more experienced staff are leaving and suddenly I’m one of the senior folks. We will also be very short-staffed, so I will get a lot of different types of experiences. It will be strange to be training new folks, since we have no had any in the past 11 months. I know the dynamic will change, but I’m also excited to get some ‘fresh blood’ in the section. Hoping we can hold it all together!! Until next time…



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2017 At Last!

Finally it is 2017. The holidays are always a little bit rough, but this one seemed especially so with many of my friends gone out of Dhaka. The Consular section was extra quiet, with only a few of us staying behind to man the post. Thankfully, though, it was generally a quiet holiday season, though a few raids on militants happened and Bangladesh experienced its first female suicide bomber.

On January 5th, our Authorized Departure status was terminated and we are now considered “partially unaccompanied” or something to that effect. We issued a newly updated Travel Warning. Only spouses that are working at the Embassy can accompany their spouses, and no children allowed at all. It has been a little over 6 months since the Holey Bakery Attack, and I think we are mostly relieved that the wait for AD to end is finished.

Another disturbing event recently was the shooting of a consular officer in Guadalajara, Mexico. My A-100 colleagues working there are safe, but I’m sure in shock. No motive has been discovered yet, but it reminds us all that we do not live in a safe world, and I do not have a safe profession. That being said, even when my life here seems difficult, I’m proud of my position as a Foreign Service Officer, and I am still so happy to have the opportunity to serve the United States and its people.

In a few days, I’m headed on my first R&R. I’ll post photos when I am back, but I can say that I am really ready to get out of town for a bit. The air pollution here is just brutal, and my lungs are never happy. Also the lack of sun and freedom definitely gets one down. I’ll desperately miss my friends here but happy to have a break. It has been nearly 2 months since I last walked outside in public, so bring on the clean air, open skies and freedom!



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